Stress Management How You Can Manage Psychosocial Stress And cope with sometimes feeling like you don't belong By Elizabeth Scott, PhD Elizabeth Scott, PhD Elizabeth Scott, PhD is an author, workshop leader, educator, and award-winning blogger on stress management, positive psychology, relationships, and emotional wellbeing. Learn about our editorial process Updated on January 09, 2024 Medically reviewed Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. Learn more. by Carly Snyder, MD Medically reviewed by Carly Snyder, MD Carly Snyder, MD is a reproductive and perinatal psychiatrist who combines traditional psychiatry with integrative medicine-based treatments. Learn about our Medical Review Board Print istockphoto Trending Videos Close this video player Whenever we find ourselves in circumstances where we feel left out, excluded, or like we just don't belong, it's psychosocial stress. This type of stress has affected all of us at one point or another and it can have a significant toll on our mental health. There are lots of situations that can trigger this type of stress and it's usually connected to our hard-wired need to feel connected to the people in our lives and our community. Psychosocial stress is the result of a cognitive appraisal (your mental interpretation) of what is at stake and what can be done about it. More simply put, psychosocial stress results when we look at a perceived social threat in our lives (real or even imagined) and discern that it may require resources we don't have. What Is Psychosocial Stress? Examples of psychosocial stress can include anything that translates to a perceived threat to our social status, social esteem, respect, and/or acceptance within a group; a threat to our self-worth; or a threat that we feel we have no control over. So, for instance, if someone we're friends with leaves us on read or if we find out we weren't invited to a party it can trigger a stress response. All of these threats can lead to a stress response in the body. These can be some of the most taxing stressors to deal with, as they can make us feel unsupported and alienated. This can make it more difficult to cope. When psychosocial stress triggers a stress response, the body releases a group of stress hormones including cortisol, epinephrine (or adrenalin), and dopamine, which leads to a burst of energy as well as other changes in the body (including the fight-or-flight response). The changes brought about by stress hormones can be helpful in the short term but can be damaging in the long run. For example, cortisol can improve the body’s functioning by increasing available energy (so that fighting or fleeing is more possible) but can lead to suppression of the immune system as well as a host of other effects. Epinephrine can also mobilize energy, but create negative psychological and physical outcomes with prolonged exposure. That's why it's important to manage psychosocial stress in our lives so that the stress response is only triggered when necessary. It's also important to learn stress relief techniques to effectively reverse the stress response so we don't experience prolonged states of stress or chronic stress. There are several ways to manage psychosocial stress, because it involves factors on the outside (what we're dealing with) and the inside (our thoughts about it), and can affect multiple areas of our lives. Here are some strategies that can help. How Your Stress Response Works How to Cope With Psychosocial Stress Develop Your Conflict Resolution Skills Conflict is an almost inevitable part of any relationship. People are going to have disagreements and are going to want different things. The way we manage conflict can create significant psychosocial stress but if you can work on your conflict resolution skills, that can help at least half of the equation: It's possible to change what you bring to the situation, you can diffuse some of the negativity, and you can model healthier behavior. This can greatly minimize the stress felt by all involved and prevent further escalation. Effective Conflict Resolution Skills Focus on Supportive Friends and Avoid Drama If you think about it, you know who you can trust to support you and who you can't. There might be people who you wish you were closer friends with but maybe the reality is that they don't actually make you feel that good about yourself. Simply spending more time with those who make your life easier and minimizing time spent with those who make you feel stressed can significantly reduce your psychosocial stress. It won't cut out all of the stress you experience, but it can stop a lot of it. Try a Shift in Perspective Sometimes we feel angered or threatened by things that don't affect us that much, and the stress we feel as a result isn't necessary. Changing how you look at something, or just shifting what you focus on can make a difference in your stress levels—it can make something that seems like a big deal feel less so. When put in a different perspective, everything can feel less stressful. A shift in perspective can also help us manage our reactions. When we perceive we've been wronged by someone or that someone's behavior was malicious towards us, it can trigger our fight-or-flight mode and cause us to get angry. We might feel the urge to send a harsh text message or yell at them, but doing so isn't going to solve anything. It's much better to take a breath and attempt to reframe the situation—even if our bodies are telling us to do the opposite. How Cognitive Reframing Works Find Stress Management Strategies That Work for You Finding ways to manage your overall stress level can help you to be less reactive to psychosocial stress, or any specific stressor. The key is to find something that works well for you and something that fits well in your life and with your personality. Some options for stress management include mindfulness meditation, breathwork, taking a walk, spending time in nature, or journaling. Therapy can also be an immensely effective tool for dealing with psychosocial stress. 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