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Reader Stories: Self Sabotage Comes In Many Forms--Here Are A Few Self Sabotage Stories

By , About.com Guide

Updated December 09, 2009

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Self-sabotage can show up in a multitude of ways! From chronic procrastination to Type A behavior to picking the wrong people in our lives, self sabotage can be easy to fall into, and can cause untold amounts of unnecessary stress. Have you experienced self sabotage yourself? How did you recognize it? How did you stop? Share your self sabotage stories, and see what you can learn from the experiences of other readers.

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Boundaries

I saw that someone who I give a lot to, took me for granted and didn't give back a reciprocal amount. In fact, it seemed that the more I gave, the more this person took me for granted. That's when I …More

Relationship Sabotage

I can tell my behavior and thoughts are not normal. I can tell that they way I acted in the beginning is not the same way I act several months into the relationship. Maybe it is my subconscious telli…More

Coping With Perfectionism

I realized that I was never quite happy with what I had accomplished--and it was annoying people around me! I couldn't accept compliments, I couldn't revel in accomplishments, there was always someth…More

Taking On Too Much

I saw myself being really impatient with my husband an kids, and feeling overwhelmed and resentful for all that I had to do. When I saw that they were unhappy, I realized that I was, too, and that th…More

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